• Holds space for others
  • Feels responsible for emotional harmony
  • Absorbs tension without knowing where it goes
  • Listens endlessly, yet is told you’re still “not listening”
  • Feels overwhelmed, shut down, or quietly resentful

Many empathetic men were never taught how to listen with boundaries, or how to stay present without collapsing, fixing, or over-functioning. This certification is for you.

This is not a casual men’s circle.
It is: In the Indian context, where this work is still rare and needed

1. 8 weeks of trauma-informed, clinician-designed training

2. Led by a licensed sex & trauma therapist

3. Focused on listening, power, accountability, and relational impact

What This 8-week Program Is actually About

This 8-week certification teaches you how to:

  • Listen without absorbing (use it for your loved ones, friends or your team)
  • Stay present without fixing the “other” and losing yourself in their pain
  • Hear impact without defensiveness
  • Hold emotion without shutting down
  • Remain ethical and grounded even when conversations are uncomfortable

This is not performative empathy for leaders.
This is regulated, embodied, accountable listening.

Why Trauma-Informed Listening Matters, especially in today’s fragmented world

Many men who identify as empathic do not want to be clubbed with abusive men and hence, they tend to take on the burden of trying very hard to be the “good man”:, the “good son”, the “good partner” and hence, end up feeling over-burdened, lost and confused without knowing how to express themselves:

  • Learned to listen as a survival strategy
  • Confuse attunement with responsibility
  • Feel guilt when setting boundaries
  • Struggle to receive anger, disappointment, or “no”

A trauma-informed approach recognizes that how you listen is shaped by your nervous system, your early conditioning, and the roles you were expected to play.

We work gently, but precisely with:

  • Nervous system regulation
  • Emotional boundaries
  • Shame and over-responsibility of the feelings of your loved ones
  • Power dynamics (even when you don’t feel “powerful”)

What We Practice Over 8 Weeks

Each week includes teaching, guided practice, reflection, arts-based tools and integration in a community of aligned men of all ages.

You will learn to:

  • Distinguish empathy from enmeshment as you do your own trauma work in community
  • Track your body while listening in a community of aligned men
  • Notice when listening becomes self-abandonment
  • Stay present with difficult emotions without dissociating
  • Respond without advice, fixing, or withdrawal
  • Receive feedback without collapsing or explaining
  • Repair when impact has occurred

Who This Is For

This certification is well-suited for:

  • Empathic men in relationships who want to listen better without burning out
  • Therapists, facilitators, educators, coaches (or those in training)
  • Men in leadership or caregiving roles
  • Men who are reflective, sincere, and willing to practice

This is not for:

  • Men seeking validation without accountability
  • Men looking for dating or confidence coaching
  • Men unwilling to examine their own patterns

A brief screening process is required, so please send in your application here.


Program Details

  • Duration: 8 weeks (May-June)
  • Format: Live online sessions, join from anywhere in the world
  • Group Size: Closed cohort (limited seats)
  • Facilitated by: Neha Bhat and excellent guest faculty
    (Licensed sex & trauma therapist, clinical supervisor, expressive arts practitioner)

Investment

This price reflects:
  • Small group depth
  • Professional-grade training
  • Assessment-based certification
  • Ongoing ethical containment

application

Please apply via this google form


Certification

Participants who complete the program and demonstrate competency will receive a Certificate of Completion in:

The Practice of Deep Listening
An 8-Week Trauma-Informed Listening Certification for Men

This certification may be used in Leadership and community contexts, Personal relationships and Therapeutic and facilitation spaces

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